Live @ December 2011

正如往常一样地生活

一步一步地朝着我想要的未来走去

兴奋地付出着我的热忱和抱负

但是

谁也没有想到

这会是个沉重的12月

突如其来的一通电话

是我熟悉的声音

可是

这一次却带着些颤抖

这一通电话

划破了一切

时间好像被拉紧-它突然间走得好慢

空间好像被隔离-它突然间变得好静

脑袋好像被关机-它突然间不能思考

这一通电话

穿梭了时空

在我脑海里溜荡的是我童年的时光,

我们一起生活的日子。

好酸的感觉

“一梦不醒归西天，西方极乐来接迎。”

心里平抚了许多

阿公，要牵紧阿麽的手，好走。

很多时候，我不懂得表达自己的感情

我还没找到那个为什么

我会一直去摸索

我很缺少的这一块

可是

我很清楚的是

我需要跳出常人的生活方式

带着和别人不一样的思维模式

不然

遗憾会一直重复着

我不要再次体会“失去才会懂得珍惜”

人生是短暂及无常的

人生难免会迷失方向

停下脚步，想一想，

为什么要奋斗

到底开始想要的是什么

莫忘初衷！！

Live @ November 2011

Year 2011 is coming to a close. Buck up everyone, there still one more month to spark your year 2011... :)

Early of this month, went to Seoul again for business. This round is fully armored with big shots of my company... haha.. therefore, no stress nor burden.. i will say this trip is for pure learning and eye-opening trip... My role just being there and learn... Have a very fruitful trip coz i return with many shopping bags... Manage to explore some places such as Myeong-dong and Gangnam... Gangnam is a very happening place full of drinking places and youngsters and Myeong-dong is veyr similar to Taipei Ximenting. Full with shop lots and stalls... It very lively and the ambience to shop is very comfortable with the chill weather.. i began to love Korea... :D

Aside from business to trip to Korea, went for a short trip to Malacca.. A heritage cultural town.. Together with my gf and her family.. Exploring places like A'Famosa, Jonker street, Istana Museum, stadhuys, peranakan museum, and etc... Another main element of the trip is the food... Chicken Rice Ball, Cendol, Laksa, Nyonya kueh, Nyonya dishes, satay celup and etc... indeed a mental and physical fruitful trip... :D

Soon, will going to Penang this coming weekend to meet my best friend there and also my college buddies there.. Believe we have not meet each another after our convocation.. and that is a 2 years time, man... i know we will have a great time then.. very look forward for this to come... will update about this trip is coming next post..

Aside from work and travels, have been very actively in pursuing the ideal target of my life... the road to "Financial and Time Freedom". i guess many of my surrounding knew about this... some give me very negative opinions on this, some return me with very open answer and definitely some very supportive on me.. i'm thankful to all, you have make me grow and step nearer to my goal..

For me, i feel it is my duly to share with anybody and everybody . Hence, no matter who are you, so long i know you, then, i will definitely share with you on this as i do not want to prejudge for you... as you are the one whom to be responsible for your own life...

you can choose to be healthy or sick;

you can choose to be rich or poor;

you can choose to be free or busy;

you can choose to be happy or sad;

you can choose to be positive or negative;

you can choose to be extraordinary or normal;

You can choose... it is your life hence it is your decision.. the key is that do you want to choose and are you dare to choose...

And more importantly:

there is no way to become better if you remained doing what you are doing now yet expecting extra-ordinary life tomorrow... You got to do something different and you got to do something that other ppl don't want to do in order for you to become outstanding..

For me, i will definitely "bet" my time and effort on this Nuskin network marketing business. Why i use the word "bet"? Because there are too much of ppl telling this business can not be done or this is not a proper "work" to do and blah blah blah... Hence, i will prove to you all in near future that i have better eye sight than you... Dont worry, I will come to find you when the day comes...

Just to share another main element which make me so keen to do this network marketing business is that it can help me to become Millionaire in one day... Which this will never be happened in my life if i continue to work for my boss... If this way can lead me to the wealthy, i can't think of any reason not to switch to that direction !! as people says if you want to mine, go the place which have most gold.. it is the same theory... Also, i have helped many people surrounding me to regain better health and happier lifestyle... this is so much meaningful than the routine job !!

Live @ October 2011

时间真的蛮有钱的

搭的不是普通的Boeing飞机，而是，

Ultrasonic 飞机！！！

时间啊

你未免也飞得太快了吧

2011年11月了

再过不久

2011年就要结束了~~

得加把劲了

要把目标达成！！

-Live@工作-

在同一间公司做了两年

终于

赢得了一个大工程

应该是公司史上最大的一个工程

hmn...

是有点成就感

但却没有那个我想象中的那种兴奋度

没有一种该去庆祝一番的冲动

好像只有一种：“哦。拿到了噢。很好。”

脑后只想到之后有得忙有得辛苦了。。

好矛盾

为什么会有这样的落差。。

打工就真的是这样吗？

归属感，就真的少得那么可怜吗？

真的没有那种

生为公司的人，死为公司的鬼。。

有几个人会全心全意为公司打拼呢？

我想只有那个老板会这样吧。。

感叹。。。。

做工应该真的只为了钱，为了生活吧。。。

-Live@生活-

我搬家了

搬到一个离我工司很远的地方

为什么？？

哈哈。。 很简单：省钱。。:D

可以把省下的钱用在更有用的地方了

说一说我的新房东。哈哈。。

他们是一家印度人。更正确的是Punjabi。。

这家人真的是无敌的洁癖。。

毫不习惯哦。。

1。每个星期都要洗厕所

2。Toiletory不能放在厕所，要带回自己的房间

3。煮开水要用自己房间的插头。流汗。。。

还有很多很多。。。

很矛盾，他说把这个当自己家。

可是，什么东西都划分得那么那么的清楚。。

谁会有归属感！！！

-Live@梦想-

“胜兵先胜，而后求战

败兵先战，而后求胜”

-[孙子兵法]

大家知道上述兵法要表达的是什么吗？

我领悟到的是，要有梦想才会成功。。。

在战争里，如果所有士兵都没有求胜心，都没有看到凯旋而归的憧憬，那这么回打胜仗呢。。

所以，我们每个人都应该要想一想我们5 年后，10 年后，20 年后或30年后想要过的生活。。

如果你想要过着比现在差的生活，那你就不需要改变。。

维持你现在做的事，维持现在的想法。。

我可以大胆的预测

你5 年后，10 年后，20 年后或30年后的生活

会比现在过得还要差，还要烂。。

因为这个现实的社会，进步的太快，太残忍了。。

5 年后，一个degree毕业生是多么的抢手，多么的可贵

可是现在呢？

满街都是，到处都有了。。

也发现到，身边好多朋友都继续深造到博士了。。

不知道不久后，会不会有比博士还要高的学位了。。哈哈。。。

想一想

以后的竞争会是多么的激烈。。。

如果我们还不要跳出传统的框框，我们能和别人竞争吗？

就算能，

也会使两败俱伤的局面

得利的那个一定是老板们或那些有钱人。。。

因为他们敢冒险，敢尝试，敢改变，敢改革。。。

你呢？？

只敢埋怨吗？

埋怨有用吗？

现实会改变吗？

想一想吧。。。。

不要在用以前的眼光看世界了。。。

因为，这个世界已经变了。。。

Never feel such so great and motivated before...

I'm an engineer. An Electrical and Electronic engineering graduates.

I'm a person who is very careful, well planned and dared not to take risk...

I always consider this and that before i do or go somewhere...

I always do something with an intention or purpose...

Believed that this is gene of an engineer

As for an engineer, we are trained with programming algorithm....

"if" something, "then" something...

perhaps, this is the reason why engineer is always so dull and straight...

we will only do the right things in the right way...

perhaps, this is also the reason, it make our life so routine and dull...

for our job, it has lost the excitement and anticipation...

maybe, the most is the pay raise or the figure of the year end bonus...

this is a sad reality to admit...

I believe

Many of us had lose our vision or what we want to achieve in our life

We only know that Monday to Friday, we have to work...

Saturday and Sunday, we can rest at home...

For me, the motivation or the excitement had gone...

Daily routine working had replace and fill up the day...

I think this is the traditional job....

Until last weekend, i attend a seminar or event of a Network Marketing company (Nuskin)

Before attending, i was just anticipating a normal talk

but, it totally stunned and amazed me...

i get to understand this business more and i see the essence of this line...

from deep of my heart,

something is triggered - "excitement"

something is shined - "vision"

something is firmed - "confidence"

I like their culture. where the quote "i'm successful only when you are successful" applied perfectly... this will definitely can't be found in traditional company where we worked now... i still remember i heard this from my colleagues: "i will not teach other all i know, as i need to keep something so that i will not get sacked". my heart was cold and don't know what to say...

I like their structure. where they have proper pathway and training to shape you from a sales person to a leader.. i believe this will never be realised in small or medium company... perhaps, those established corporate will only deploy this... even though, they will only trained you to expertise in your current field but not the next level...

I like their spirits. where everyone trust and believe in the company... i can always heard of complains, grumbles and gossips.... instead of the united spirits to bring out the most for the company..

I like their mindset. where everything is so positive and healthy... they methodology is very similar to The Secret.... where we shall always think of what we what instead of what we don't want...

after the seminar

few thoughts penetrates and come to my mind

"I must stand there and speak one day with my friends"

i can imagine that i fought the way together with my friends to the top

i can imagine the fantastic and truthful talks which we will share on the stage

i can imagine the scene that i reminisce back the time i persuading you all to join this line...

i will never regret if i talked/persuaded you many times... as i know i will only regret if i give up to talk to you.... because i want you, my friends to strive together to success...

i will not treat this as direct sales...

this will be my future

it is the career culture which i want to have....

一星期：成果验收

(1) 24岁生日时的照片（也就是一个月前）

(2) 试了一个星期后的成果 （几天前）

** 有没有觉得，变瘦了？我看见了我的下巴而不是双下巴了。。 骄傲。。啊哈哈哈。。**

兴奋。。 兴奋。。。。

现在是公布一个星期的数据。。。 OS:比之前拿成绩单还兴奋。哈哈。。

之前的体重：78.5 KG

现在的体重：76.8 KG

之前的脂肪：21.3% （16.7KG）

现在的脂肪：20.0% （15.3KG）

之前的VFA：8.0

现在的VFA: 7.5

*P.S.: VFA = Visceral Fat Area. Or commonly known as Belly Fat. 腹部脂肪， 也就是肚腩。。

aishe... 说真的，当看到这些数字时，真的好开心，超兴奋的。。没有预料到会这么有效。。 值得值得。。Bye bye 了1.5KG 的脂肪，你们陪了我过了24 年的。。不要再见了。。

大姑：“阿伟，好像瘦下来勒”

阿萍（也就是我姐）：“身体还没瘦下来，脸就变尖了”

Kathy （同事）：“你剪头发吗？才4 天没有见到你。你好像瘦了勒。”

你们知道吗？听到这些话时，是多么的开心，多么的有成就感。。。 嘻嘻

变瘦， 对一个胖的人来说，是一个多么的“大件事”吗？因为，真的有多困难，多难得。

现在， 终于，找到了对的方法了。3个月，我又信心可以远离“胖”世界了。。。

亲身体验及感受：

隆重介绍：Nuskin 的 TRA 体重管理产品。。

Proudly present here: TRA weight management products from Nuskin...

这个决定会是个转捩点吗？

“我要减 10kg ！！”

常常在想

但无奈

这句话还是存在

又证明

我又失败了

还是没有瘦下来

感叹。。

其实

我真的蛮决心的

认为我的饮食 应该是算 还很健康的

早餐 只有 咖啡和麦片面包

午餐 杂菜饭 也都是 少饭 少肉 多菜

晚餐 更厉害 就是 蔬菜汤 而已

每星期都有3次的跑步

现在更夸张 把跑步 换到清晨 希望可以燃烧多点的脂肪

平时 也有 在家 锻炼锻炼

有哑铃 也有单轮 (roller)

可是

我就是瘦不下来

我觉得应该是我20年来囤积真的太多太厚的脂肪了吧

毕竟

想一想

我好像从小学1或2年级起

就再 也没有瘦过了吧

汗颜 ....

哈哈...

但我没有就此 任命 认输

我要瘦下来 !!!!

是机缘 还是 命运

我的好朋友 试了某种 减肥营养 产品

而且 他的效果还不错

所以

下了决心 做了决定

我要服用这个产品

因为 不论 饮食 运动 作息 我都还蛮健康的

没有理由 不能瘦下来的

可能 真的 需要一点 科技来助我一臂之力了... 啊哈哈哈...

我不要再为了收 起肚男 而 憋着半口气了!!!

希望真的可以 以 这个产品 加上 我的决心

让我长久的愿望 能够实现.... :)

3个月... 就是 见证 效果的时刻了... 哈哈....

P.S. 现在的我是78KG. 我要瘦到 68KG.....

Live @ July 2011

July 2011 is a busy and colorful month to me...

It is packed with many events, occasions and things...

Early of July, went to another business trip at Korea. This round, i went together with our department head. Hmn Hmn. Thought will have some in depth conversation regarding career or work. But, nothing really comes out. Haha. Maybe haven't really reach there yet. This round is a real pure business trip. Once step down from airport, rush to the hotel. It was raining and we are wet. SWEAT. Informed by the receptionist, the room is not yet ready. But we need to bath and change before we can go for our meeting.. Luckily we can go in to Sauna room to bath and change. Then, right after we are ready, heading toward our client's side for meeting. From my previous experience, meeting usually takes maybe 2 or 3 hours the most. But not this time. we start meeting around 10am ++. Guess.. what time the meeting ends... It ends around 9pm++. Exhausted. Mentally and physically.. Alright, now i wont get too look forward for overseas trip now... haha...

Mid of July, it is one of a gathering which planned long long time ago with Shin Chze.. It's a gathering and meet up with college buddies at KL.. Finally, we have another chance of all Fab5 buddies to sit down together and talk.. It has been ages.. Maybe nearly 2 years.. As i take bus directly from Singapore to PJ. Initial thought is to have First Coach bus where i can reach One Utama directly.. SWEAT.. There is no more ticket.. They say i should book earlier next time.. Then, i wonder how much earlier which i need to book the ticket.. What a shocking answer, 2 or 3 months earlier.. wow.. indeed singaporean style.. super KiaSu... it's just bus ticket, not a flight ticket... luckily, my house is nearby to singapore "pudu" - Golden Mile.. so i managed to get the bus ticket to KL but i need to alight at Time Square... Is it fated? As i thought how to go back from time square to PJ. By chance, Sanny happened to be at Time Square. :) sometimes we do not really need to worry much. As there is always will have the way out.. Chinese Proverb says: "The Ship will get straight when it reaches the Jetty".. just stay chill... :)

About this gathering, it is nice... Managed to meet up with Shin Chze, Sanny, Kwok Hau(with his gf), Jega.. (these are Fab-5 member) and also our college buddies Elaine, Joe, Daniel Yap, Ong and Ricky.. :) We talk. We joke. We tease. We laugh. We share. We reminisce. and a lot more... Even though we been heading to our own direction in different places in different way.. some, we seldom chat. But, when the time we gather together. The chemistry is still there. It is so warm. We got to have this more and more frequent..

Also, this KL trip, again, stay at DaJie's house with shin chze.. Got the chance to play with Kimi.. he is so cute and funny... like to say Hi.. :) and he so happy to watch his own videos.. :) i miss Dim Sum... Singapore Dim Sum really tak boleh... so, me, shin chze and Da Jie went to Damansara for morning Dim Sum.. its so much nicer (even though it is not the nicest in town).. :D

At end of the month, it is my Birthday... :) As planned, my 24th birthday, spent together with my loved. We have a fine cooked dinner at Tol Tasca.. the taste is great... it's something different from those normal western food... i also don't it is which country's cuisine.. anyway, it is quite special and taste good... We went for a walk along the singapore river.. with the Marina Sands Casino, Heliax Bridge and etc as the background.. the portray is so grand.. so much fancy... you can sit there for hours enjoying the river breeze and chill... last stop is our favorite place: CoffeeClub.. to have cakes.. Oreo Cheese Cake is the full stop of the day...

This is a summary of my July... :) coming ahead is August... i foresee there will be some changes in my life.. Stay Tune at Live @ chinwei

Live @ Vision

“眨一眨眼，十年就这样过了”

现在想一想这句大家会随口说说的话

好像真的蛮贴切满真实的

24岁了

应该算过了三份之一的人生了

无忧无虑的童年过了

懵懵懂懂的小学生涯也过了

青涩的18岁也流逝了

开始懂事的大学生涯也体验了

这三份之一的人生

也算蛮不错的吧

至少

有那么多的转折和变化

现在，已近工作快两年了

正感受和面对现实的社会

这两年的社会体验

学会了好多

感觉自己长大了许多

会说的话

会想的事

会打算的计划

会担心的将来

好像越来越多

但又好像

只懂得想

但

却没有去做

所以

还是等于没有

还是保持现状

当初，刚毕业时，就说着：“嗯，我打算第一份工作做一年， 然后，去做sales，再去做marketing。。”

那时的想法好简单，学了这些，就可以自己创业，当老板。。。

2年过去了

我还在一样的公司，一样的部门。和我同个时间进来的同事，也都辞职了。同个部门的人，也大换血了，几乎已经改朝换代了。

再过不久，就会有2个新人进来

希望

我可以有能力改变现在的体制

让我现在的部门

更有水平

更有活力

更有笑声

更有归属感

毕竟

这些都是现在没有的

假如我可以做到这些，应该算蛮成功的吧。。 哈哈。。。

希望

不久后

我会再来到这里

来看我的目标是否达成。。 :)

我的能力，智慧跟想法 就是 〈钥匙〉

我会带着这把钥匙

去开启

未来的〈门〉

《小娘惹》

《小娘惹》

应该是几年前的连续剧了，也是我看过新传媒最好的作品。在短短的一个星期就把30多集看完。真的好精彩。

不论是铺陈，感动度，紧凑性，等等。。 都捉住了我的心。

命运的转变

从内心的无奈而遵从

到倔强的对峙

事与愿违

受尽伤害后

最后还是无力的认命

但

何尝不是另一种幸福

有时

我们最想要的幸福

头破血流后

也不一定能得到

走着另一条路所遇见的

可能带来另一种幸福

另一个很成功的就是主题曲：如燕

非常贴切地描述整个故事，很有语气的一首歌，感觉到的是历经一切后的领悟和回味。

音乐分享 @ 张惠妹<你在看我吗>

迷上了。。 连续听了接近2个星期，上班听，下班路上也在听，应该有听了上百次了。。

不腻。一点也不烦。。 越听越有味道。。。

如果你还没有听过，逊。。 哈哈。。 真的很棒，快点去听。。

整张专辑有10首歌。。

01.都什么时候了

02.一个人对话

03.还有眼泪就好

04.他们

05.我最亲爱的

06.你在看我吗

07.潜规则

08.来闹的

09.渴了

10.High咖

整体来说，音乐类型很广。。

有抒情的，有甜蜜的，有神秘的，有high的，有神经质的，有性感的。。。

阿妹的歌唱实力技巧和感情表达。真的没话说。。好像她在对着你唱出她的故事，侵蚀你的思绪，把你带进他的世界。。 先把你带进她的感性地带，接着是内心的遗憾和脆弱，下一首，又把你抽出，带进神秘地带。。思绪的改变。。 音乐一变，又好像牵着你到一个很high的party。。

有两首歌是我特爱的。。

第一首是抒情慢歌：我最亲爱的

唱着人性最脆弱的 “遗憾”

是错过？ 或误会？还是命运？

内心的牵挂和关心，却不能释怀，不能放下。。

努力学习成为你想要的我

关系已不一样

不舍

遗憾

但还能改变什么

能回到之前那样吗？

相信

这是很多很多人心里都有这个属于自己的秘密

闭上眼睛，融入音乐，用力的听一听歌词，让阿妹触碰这块秘密地带。。

第二首是：他们

甜甜也淡淡的一首歌

带出很明确的想法

〈小情人 可能有很多事情不明白 只明白 玫瑰花买不起就不用买〉

爱可以很简单，没有什么复杂的，

不用太花俏，不用太刻意，也不用勉强

只要享受爱，就能逍遥自在，就这么简单。。

生活也是一样，不要太执着，不要迷失自我。。

简单点

就自然开心的。。。

《原则》

前几天看了一部电影，让我再次对“原则”， 又有多了一次的思考。

《原则》

真的那么重要吗？如果， 没有原则，真的不行吗？

那部电影：《赵氏孤儿》

是讲述朝廷斗争，奸臣谋策地把赵氏忠臣全家上下给谋害了。为赵家夫人接生的大夫为了保住赵家唯一的血脉，也卷入了这场斗争。为了这，他的妻子和亲生儿也给被杀害。因此，他也萌生了报复的行动。 他要让那奸臣生不如死。所以，他把赵家孤儿当成己子，接近投靠那奸臣。因为他要让赵氏孤儿在那奸臣身边长大，成为他的亲信，然后亲口告诉他的身份及杀死他。

所以，那个大夫用了20年来养大赵氏孤儿。其实，他有很多很多的机会和方法来杀死那个奸臣。但就是因为他选择了“原则”。

当赵氏孤儿成人后，大夫把所有的真相告诉了他。但，那奸臣作为赵氏孤儿的干爹，他已经不相信那真相。这也就是说，大夫20年的报复计划完完全全的失败了。也就是说，他所秉持的“原则”什么也不是，什么也不能做了。“原则”也让他失去了一切。

赵氏孤儿为了报答大夫的养育之恩，便向那奸臣挑战，但他不是那奸臣的对手。

最后，大夫也牺牲了自己，赵氏孤儿才有机会杀了那奸臣。

相信，赵氏孤儿并不是为了报仇而杀了那奸臣。 他是为了报答大夫的养育之恩。

“原则”

牺牲了大夫的20年。牺牲了自己的生命。

假如大夫没有秉持原则，那他可以在一开始就毒死那奸臣。一切的一切就不一样了。。

我们也一样，很多时候，为了某些原则，牺牲了太多太多的人，事，与物。

究竟，值得吗？

没有原则的人， 会是个不择手段的人？还是一个没有尊严的人吗？

所以，我认为，能屈能伸会让一切简单些，直接些。 做个能弯腰的人，应该没有什么不好的。不要为了某些原则，让生活变得有那么多的限制，那么多的绕道，那么多的不值得。

做个有弹性的人吧。。应该会容易很多吧。。。 一切会变得简单许多的。。。

对自己的生活负责

不知不觉,升上了大学2年级. 什么大学? 哈哈... 是社会大学...

好快. 毕业了. 找到工了. 就这样做了1年半...

嗯.... 就在这里说说这1年半....

刚开始,因为什么都不会,所以, 没有什么责任... 所以,还蛮轻松的.准时上班.也准时下班.

做着做着,会的东西也多了,也上手了.责任越来越多,工作越来越多.就慢慢的开始了加班.无形中也加了 许多的压力... 每天, 都在赶着赶那... 还没做完这个, 又有新的东西得做... 很多时候, 感觉随时会窒息... 真的觉得自己好像是个机器.... 当时, 会想, 1年, 1 年到就换工... 但到现在, 我还在同个公司... 哈哈....

可能, 是我开窍了.... 了解了"做工" 这回事... 哈哈...

我们只是打工而已... 真的不用拼命...

所以, 之后的我, 又回到了, 准时上班也准时下班的生活... 下班后, 就什么都不想, 什么都不去担心. 就过"自己" 的生活而不是过"做工" 的生后... 所以, 人也轻松了许多... 工作时也开心了许多... 压力也渐渐的少了...

可能另外一个开窍的原因是因为健康的问题...

有次身体检查到肝脏严重发炎... 其中一个原因是超重... 自从开始工作后, 真的很少运动了... 身体是父母给的, 是我们自己的. 每人可以帮你. 要对自己的身体负责... 上班时, 对老板负责... 6点后, 就要对自己负责... 所以, 决定了, 每个星期, 一定要跑步3-4天...

除非, 真的是非常重要, 或者, 是本身很重视的工程, 不然, 是不会违背这个原则.... 因为, 我认为, 工作真的只是赚钱的过程... 我们赚钱是为了什么? 还不是为了有更好的生活.. 假如身体不好, 有个屁用... 健康是最重要的... 其次, 是生活的意义... 再来时家人和爱人... 等等.... 最后, 才是工作....

但, 应该很多很多人, 都好像"卖身"给老板... 都在拼命为他们赚钱... 那, 得到了什么...

想想, 失去了什么? 还有, 会失去什么?

值得吗?

可能, 只是你们的责任感... 但, 也不用那么浓烈吧... 偶尔, 偶尔, 责任感一下... 对得起天地良心就好了...

假如你对你的工作很负责... 那, 你的生活呢? 你的兴趣呢? 你的家人呢? 你的朋友呢? 还有很多很多的人事物等着你去负责....

9am 后, 尽情地工作, 尽力发挥...

6pm 后，放下. 真的放下。过自己的生活。 自己的自己的老板， 对他负责。。。

When is your turn?

Having meeting with my colleague today to discuss something on project. In fact, we are not that close yet we have some chats in between. Get to know that he is leaving company very soon. hmn hmn... this is my reaction and wish him good luck. Afterall, we have not much interaction before this. Heard some complains from him about company, it is quite a normal to listen all these in my company (which i believe this happens in all company... haha)

"Why you haven't leave? When is your turn?"

Wo... this question pops out before in my mind before this. In fact, for my company, the pay is not that attractive, workload is seriously heavy, whatever also want to take and etc...

"I want to close a big project before I leave.." This is one of the reason i stay here... I want to make a milestone (at least) which rocks !!!!

Also, i'm quite happy and cherish the opportunity that company gives. It is quite a nice exposure to more managing role. Although not that much, but, still a nice learning curve for me. Learning some managing tactics and some planning for ownself and team. It's quite interesting... Maybe, exposure and experience brings more than money sense....

I'm still happy and contented with my work... Happy working everyone... Try to find the meaning of working...

Ridiculous yet Malaysian are so Flexible...

My parent is not away for two weeks for their first ever oversea travel. Quite happy when it shows that they can really start to enjoy their life from now onwards. As we are getting adults and self independent, they can put down all the stuff and worries. And we can support them financially, in fact, quite proud and happy of this. Finally, it is time to repay all their efforts on nurturing us.

Mum is not at home. So, who cooks? hmn hmn... this is a good question yet easy to solve.. haha.. so for this weekend, i got to solve my breakfast, lunch and dinner outside... haha...

My lunch for today is MarryBrown Nasi Lemak. Suddenly gt this urge for this. Maybe coz i recount back that i had this during cny time with my bros and sis. Taste not bad so i decide to have my lunch there. It is still tasting nice... but, the sambal is so little. so i request more from the waitress there.. After a while, a malay waitress brings the sambal to me. With smile, she said: "Tambah chilli kena tambah satu ringgit". SWEAT.... I'm eating your nasi lemak and i request for more chili. It needs to cost me one ringgit. not that stupid.. so i replied: "Satu ringgit? Tak mau le.." Still feeling quite stupid for paying one ringgit for sambal.. it is just ridiculous...

Guess.. what the waitress replied...

"Tak apa la.."

The sambal is now free of charge.. haha... dunnoe should i laugh or wat... the thing is supposed to be sold at one ringgit... but then, now given free by the waitress.... is this flexible? or what?

From this small incident, can see that how Malaysian treats things. I believed Malaysians are really "cincai" and does not care much. Pros and cons. When nothing happens, then, it is good, everyone is happy. "You are so kind", "Thank you, you are a good man" and etc compliments will be appeared.

BUT, i think this is also the reason why ppl have the impression that stuff which made in malaysia is sub-standard. Mainly, because we are really quite "cincai" and we have the mentally of "never mind", "it won't affect much", "tak apa la" and etc. Also, i think this is where all our corruption happens. I dunnoe if this is true. But this is wat i feel and wat i guess. Because, all of us are being so "flexible" and so good at "twist and turn". haha...

P.S. No insult... i'm malaysian too and also very flexible... but, i really feel tat we need to change and improve.... :)

Working life equals to ur life?

decide to write this blog post after noticing my gf so stressful... her face without any expression, tired and worried... aiks...

have u ever think about why we work? just because we need to work so that we can continue to survive? bt totally agree this and this is real fact... unless we are born rich...

since that we work because we want to live, but, y still need to care or worry so much things about ur work after working hour? everyday we are working from 9am till night... we work to earn the "life" after working hour, isn't it?

sometimes, while waiting for lift after knock off, hearding this from my colleagues, "finally can see sun when i go home" so sad, right? why work so hard and so late everyday... we are just getting a job to earn salary... our working time is 9 to 6...

we are employed but not "sold"...

i have so many things to do... tomorrow morning i have to submit this and that... i still have this and that to do... so many things and yet so little time... so no choice i have to work ot...

in fact, that is one of the choice and we always have other choice... so how to solve this problem? easy: reduce workload or increase man power... have u try to talk to ur boss about the solution? i guess, no. coz we will feel that no use.. boss will not care so much.. but, how u noe if u din't try.. at least we need to voice out our problem to them... so all this worries will be our boss's problem ... if they dont wan to hire more ppl to help then means that they agree that we can give up something... it can be quality or it can be the quantity... u cant have the best of all...

every weekday, we work for 9 hours. deducting sleeping time, one weekday, we only have 5 or 6 hours of "life" time... it is so short yet still deducting it for work... so unfair to ur life... so, don't care so much thing when u step out from office... it is ur life that time, nobody have the right to have u to work, not the supplier, not the client, not ur boss... unless u r sold to the company...

spend ur "life" time to relax. to enjoy ur meal.. to plan ur future... to chat with fren.... to company ur family..... even just to watch the clock ticks.... who noes u think of a great idea which earns u millions during that time.... there are so many thing we can do......

work ur best when u r working. live ur own life when u r off from work...please don't work blindly...

work is work and life is life...

Welcome to Live@chinwei

Quite surprise that i'm writing this...

Been reading many people's blog but do not have the thought to write my own till few minutes ago...

It is bit of random..

Thanks to Dajie, she is the one who promote blogging to me over msn just now... because this afternoon i was helping her to write something in chinese to post on her FB... till a moment ago, one of her fren replied her and she ask me on how to reply... her fren writes very well, very true and speaks the words which most of words have thought of it before. then, Dajie gimme her blog and i start reading and reading.... very attractive and down to earth of writing. she describes her feeling and thinking very thoroughly...

Casually mention to Dajie that i should write blogs also. and, she shares her feeling on how blogs can help her to remember all the happy past and so on.. true also Dajie, one day our memory will getting worse and worse... haha...

This is how the kick come from... very random and dunnoe why..

Thanks ya Dajie and ur fren (although i dunnoe her at all, haha)...

Calling my blog as Live@chinwei..... having this name for my first ever blog is that i wish all of you can have the live news/story/thought/feeling.... update from me....

Will try to update about my life more in here.... (hope can keep this as a practice..)

Enjoy reading and there will be more upcoming... :)