Live @ February 2012

今天想在这边表达一个想法：“决定”

我们每天都在做选择。

分别知在于选项的多寡还有效应的大小。

听过一句蛮有道理的话：今天的你是2或3年前，你做的一个决定。

毕业后，报读了工程系学位。这个决定造就了今天的我 - 成为了一位工程师。

一个充满憧憬的菜鸟，一呆就做了2年半，

体会到工作环境的现实，

体验到社会的残酷，

当然，

也体恤到人间的冷暖，

也学会待人处事的技巧。

2年半的工作经验，

的确，

让我成长了，今天的我和两年半前的我，

也完全的转变了。

可是，

两年半，

真的。。

无趣了。

已经闷了。

也已经失去奋斗力。

感觉，

真的是过一天算一天，

根本没有想要突破的思绪。

以下是蛮常浮现的对话。。

我：“最近过得怎样？”

朋友：“这样咯，在赶project”

我：“哦。你老板一定很喜欢你。这么拼命。”

朋友：“没有办法啦”

多么无奈的一段对话。。

“就这样咯”

我真的不想要“就这样咯”地过我的生活！！

人的一生真的很短暂，

而且脆弱。

可能随时就会结束，没有人能预测。

我要带来的是欢乐，

我要拥有的是有意义的成就，

我要过的是精彩的人生，

我要达成的是有素质的生活，

我要拥抱的是无忧的自由。

我必须改变，

而且，

这个改变必须要有“决心”。

坚持,

一定要到达我想要的地方才罢休。

改变我一生的决定

我做了

改变我一生的决择

我选了

改变我一生的观念

我认可

现在，只剩下时间的考验。

虽然，

开始的旅程是艰辛的，

但，

那个最终的结果，

是我要的。

是我一定要的。

我要我的人生是

有品质的，

精彩的，

自由的，

丰富的，

色彩的，

最重要的是：无悔

所以，这个机会我一定把握。

Live @ January 2012

Can't wait to write this post even though there are 14 days more in January but there are many things running in my mind and many stories to share here.. blinks...

Before that, wish everyone had a great time in year 2011... and definitely, year 2012 will be great more fantastic moments...

My year 2011 had been full of joys, growth, changes and sadness.. Have really experienced a year with all tastes... my taste buds gets better now, haha, shall be able to enjoy even greater tastes in year 2012...

First day of January, had a short weekend trip with buddy gang of secondary school (WeiKang, Jonathan and Chia Hui). Doesn't plan much. And we had a very relaxing kampung breakaway there.. Love the moment of being together with old friends.. P.S. Jacuzzi spa is damn nice.. :D

Secondly, congratulation to our cartoon gal, Elaine.. it is a lovely wedding ceremony.. i see wonderful families of urs and also Patrick's. :) wish you to have ur greatest dream comes true this year... Little baby dragon ... :)

And this is the first time i touched the land of Ipoh. It is a nice place with very friendly people.. Get to know new Ipoh friends, savour great local Ipoh delicacy and etc. Also, been a long long time didn't meet with Kawai and Daniel.. nice chatting with you both though its so short... However, there is a tinge of sadness as another two members of my gang do not able to join this round...

A small story to share here.... as taking the coach back from OneU to Singapore, get to know another new friend, Deric. He is a trainer in helping corporate to set the vision and align the staff with the corporate direction. We had a very very good time chatting and sharing about dreams, visions, mindsets and a lot more... This meet up make me believe even stronger on Destiny and Fate.. as flash back now, taking 11am coach is not my initial planning... originally, i have an appointment with a friend, but, last minute cancelled. originally, i plan to take the coach from time square instead of OneU. originally, i plan to take the 3pm coach instead of 11am... everything seems to be twisted to make me met up with him... oh,ya.. i misplaced my MP3 player on coach and he found it after i left... Destiny... As i'm preparing to make some decision in life, will he be the one who will enlighten me on the dilemma in my mind now...

Last but its the most most important, January is the meaningful month that complete my life... 5th of Jan is the day that my lovely partner agrees to walk along with me attached with her unconditional trust.. We do not celebrate anything this year.. As we are striving towards the future which we want to have. Dear Dear, be patient.. As my idol promises to his wife, i will do the same. I will double return you of what we have sacrificed now.. thanks for so considerate and understanding, we will definitely achieve what we want in this few years... Upholding our principal and bracing through the time, and we will be there..

Live @ December 2011

正如往常一样地生活

一步一步地朝着我想要的未来走去

兴奋地付出着我的热忱和抱负

但是

谁也没有想到

这会是个沉重的12月

突如其来的一通电话

是我熟悉的声音

可是

这一次却带着些颤抖

这一通电话

划破了一切

时间好像被拉紧-它突然间走得好慢

空间好像被隔离-它突然间变得好静

脑袋好像被关机-它突然间不能思考

这一通电话

穿梭了时空

在我脑海里溜荡的是我童年的时光,

我们一起生活的日子。

好酸的感觉

“一梦不醒归西天，西方极乐来接迎。”

心里平抚了许多

阿公，要牵紧阿麽的手，好走。

很多时候，我不懂得表达自己的感情

我还没找到那个为什么

我会一直去摸索

我很缺少的这一块

可是

我很清楚的是

我需要跳出常人的生活方式

带着和别人不一样的思维模式

不然

遗憾会一直重复着

我不要再次体会“失去才会懂得珍惜”

人生是短暂及无常的

人生难免会迷失方向

停下脚步，想一想，

为什么要奋斗

到底开始想要的是什么

莫忘初衷！！

Live @ November 2011

Year 2011 is coming to a close. Buck up everyone, there still one more month to spark your year 2011... :)

Early of this month, went to Seoul again for business. This round is fully armored with big shots of my company... haha.. therefore, no stress nor burden.. i will say this trip is for pure learning and eye-opening trip... My role just being there and learn... Have a very fruitful trip coz i return with many shopping bags... Manage to explore some places such as Myeong-dong and Gangnam... Gangnam is a very happening place full of drinking places and youngsters and Myeong-dong is veyr similar to Taipei Ximenting. Full with shop lots and stalls... It very lively and the ambience to shop is very comfortable with the chill weather.. i began to love Korea... :D

Aside from business to trip to Korea, went for a short trip to Malacca.. A heritage cultural town.. Together with my gf and her family.. Exploring places like A'Famosa, Jonker street, Istana Museum, stadhuys, peranakan museum, and etc... Another main element of the trip is the food... Chicken Rice Ball, Cendol, Laksa, Nyonya kueh, Nyonya dishes, satay celup and etc... indeed a mental and physical fruitful trip... :D

Soon, will going to Penang this coming weekend to meet my best friend there and also my college buddies there.. Believe we have not meet each another after our convocation.. and that is a 2 years time, man... i know we will have a great time then.. very look forward for this to come... will update about this trip is coming next post..

Aside from work and travels, have been very actively in pursuing the ideal target of my life... the road to "Financial and Time Freedom". i guess many of my surrounding knew about this... some give me very negative opinions on this, some return me with very open answer and definitely some very supportive on me.. i'm thankful to all, you have make me grow and step nearer to my goal..

For me, i feel it is my duly to share with anybody and everybody . Hence, no matter who are you, so long i know you, then, i will definitely share with you on this as i do not want to prejudge for you... as you are the one whom to be responsible for your own life...

you can choose to be healthy or sick;

you can choose to be rich or poor;

you can choose to be free or busy;

you can choose to be happy or sad;

you can choose to be positive or negative;

you can choose to be extraordinary or normal;

You can choose... it is your life hence it is your decision.. the key is that do you want to choose and are you dare to choose...

And more importantly:

there is no way to become better if you remained doing what you are doing now yet expecting extra-ordinary life tomorrow... You got to do something different and you got to do something that other ppl don't want to do in order for you to become outstanding..

For me, i will definitely "bet" my time and effort on this Nuskin network marketing business. Why i use the word "bet"? Because there are too much of ppl telling this business can not be done or this is not a proper "work" to do and blah blah blah... Hence, i will prove to you all in near future that i have better eye sight than you... Dont worry, I will come to find you when the day comes...

Just to share another main element which make me so keen to do this network marketing business is that it can help me to become Millionaire in one day... Which this will never be happened in my life if i continue to work for my boss... If this way can lead me to the wealthy, i can't think of any reason not to switch to that direction !! as people says if you want to mine, go the place which have most gold.. it is the same theory... Also, i have helped many people surrounding me to regain better health and happier lifestyle... this is so much meaningful than the routine job !!

Live @ October 2011

时间真的蛮有钱的

搭的不是普通的Boeing飞机，而是，

Ultrasonic 飞机！！！

时间啊

你未免也飞得太快了吧

2011年11月了

再过不久

2011年就要结束了~~

得加把劲了

要把目标达成！！

-Live@工作-

在同一间公司做了两年

终于

赢得了一个大工程

应该是公司史上最大的一个工程

hmn...

是有点成就感

但却没有那个我想象中的那种兴奋度

没有一种该去庆祝一番的冲动

好像只有一种：“哦。拿到了噢。很好。”

脑后只想到之后有得忙有得辛苦了。。

好矛盾

为什么会有这样的落差。。

打工就真的是这样吗？

归属感，就真的少得那么可怜吗？

真的没有那种

生为公司的人，死为公司的鬼。。

有几个人会全心全意为公司打拼呢？

我想只有那个老板会这样吧。。

感叹。。。。

做工应该真的只为了钱，为了生活吧。。。

-Live@生活-

我搬家了

搬到一个离我工司很远的地方

为什么？？

哈哈。。 很简单：省钱。。:D

可以把省下的钱用在更有用的地方了

说一说我的新房东。哈哈。。

他们是一家印度人。更正确的是Punjabi。。

这家人真的是无敌的洁癖。。

毫不习惯哦。。

1。每个星期都要洗厕所

2。Toiletory不能放在厕所，要带回自己的房间

3。煮开水要用自己房间的插头。流汗。。。

还有很多很多。。。

很矛盾，他说把这个当自己家。

可是，什么东西都划分得那么那么的清楚。。

谁会有归属感！！！

-Live@梦想-

“胜兵先胜，而后求战

败兵先战，而后求胜”

-[孙子兵法]

大家知道上述兵法要表达的是什么吗？

我领悟到的是，要有梦想才会成功。。。

在战争里，如果所有士兵都没有求胜心，都没有看到凯旋而归的憧憬，那这么回打胜仗呢。。

所以，我们每个人都应该要想一想我们5 年后，10 年后，20 年后或30年后想要过的生活。。

如果你想要过着比现在差的生活，那你就不需要改变。。

维持你现在做的事，维持现在的想法。。

我可以大胆的预测

你5 年后，10 年后，20 年后或30年后的生活

会比现在过得还要差，还要烂。。

因为这个现实的社会，进步的太快，太残忍了。。

5 年后，一个degree毕业生是多么的抢手，多么的可贵

可是现在呢？

满街都是，到处都有了。。

也发现到，身边好多朋友都继续深造到博士了。。

不知道不久后，会不会有比博士还要高的学位了。。哈哈。。。

想一想

以后的竞争会是多么的激烈。。。

如果我们还不要跳出传统的框框，我们能和别人竞争吗？

就算能，

也会使两败俱伤的局面

得利的那个一定是老板们或那些有钱人。。。

因为他们敢冒险，敢尝试，敢改变，敢改革。。。

你呢？？

只敢埋怨吗？

埋怨有用吗？

现实会改变吗？

想一想吧。。。。

不要在用以前的眼光看世界了。。。

因为，这个世界已经变了。。。

Never feel such so great and motivated before...

I'm an engineer. An Electrical and Electronic engineering graduates.

I'm a person who is very careful, well planned and dared not to take risk...

I always consider this and that before i do or go somewhere...

I always do something with an intention or purpose...

Believed that this is gene of an engineer

As for an engineer, we are trained with programming algorithm....

"if" something, "then" something...

perhaps, this is the reason why engineer is always so dull and straight...

we will only do the right things in the right way...

perhaps, this is also the reason, it make our life so routine and dull...

for our job, it has lost the excitement and anticipation...

maybe, the most is the pay raise or the figure of the year end bonus...

this is a sad reality to admit...

I believe

Many of us had lose our vision or what we want to achieve in our life

We only know that Monday to Friday, we have to work...

Saturday and Sunday, we can rest at home...

For me, the motivation or the excitement had gone...

Daily routine working had replace and fill up the day...

I think this is the traditional job....

Until last weekend, i attend a seminar or event of a Network Marketing company (Nuskin)

Before attending, i was just anticipating a normal talk

but, it totally stunned and amazed me...

i get to understand this business more and i see the essence of this line...

from deep of my heart,

something is triggered - "excitement"

something is shined - "vision"

something is firmed - "confidence"

I like their culture. where the quote "i'm successful only when you are successful" applied perfectly... this will definitely can't be found in traditional company where we worked now... i still remember i heard this from my colleagues: "i will not teach other all i know, as i need to keep something so that i will not get sacked". my heart was cold and don't know what to say...

I like their structure. where they have proper pathway and training to shape you from a sales person to a leader.. i believe this will never be realised in small or medium company... perhaps, those established corporate will only deploy this... even though, they will only trained you to expertise in your current field but not the next level...

I like their spirits. where everyone trust and believe in the company... i can always heard of complains, grumbles and gossips.... instead of the united spirits to bring out the most for the company..

I like their mindset. where everything is so positive and healthy... they methodology is very similar to The Secret.... where we shall always think of what we what instead of what we don't want...

after the seminar

few thoughts penetrates and come to my mind

"I must stand there and speak one day with my friends"

i can imagine that i fought the way together with my friends to the top

i can imagine the fantastic and truthful talks which we will share on the stage

i can imagine the scene that i reminisce back the time i persuading you all to join this line...

i will never regret if i talked/persuaded you many times... as i know i will only regret if i give up to talk to you.... because i want you, my friends to strive together to success...

i will not treat this as direct sales...

this will be my future

it is the career culture which i want to have....

一星期：成果验收

(1) 24岁生日时的照片（也就是一个月前）

(2) 试了一个星期后的成果 （几天前）

** 有没有觉得，变瘦了？我看见了我的下巴而不是双下巴了。。 骄傲。。啊哈哈哈。。**

兴奋。。 兴奋。。。。

现在是公布一个星期的数据。。。 OS:比之前拿成绩单还兴奋。哈哈。。

之前的体重：78.5 KG

现在的体重：76.8 KG

之前的脂肪：21.3% （16.7KG）

现在的脂肪：20.0% （15.3KG）

之前的VFA：8.0

现在的VFA: 7.5

*P.S.: VFA = Visceral Fat Area. Or commonly known as Belly Fat. 腹部脂肪， 也就是肚腩。。

aishe... 说真的，当看到这些数字时，真的好开心，超兴奋的。。没有预料到会这么有效。。 值得值得。。Bye bye 了1.5KG 的脂肪，你们陪了我过了24 年的。。不要再见了。。

大姑：“阿伟，好像瘦下来勒”

阿萍（也就是我姐）：“身体还没瘦下来，脸就变尖了”

Kathy （同事）：“你剪头发吗？才4 天没有见到你。你好像瘦了勒。”

你们知道吗？听到这些话时，是多么的开心，多么的有成就感。。。 嘻嘻

变瘦， 对一个胖的人来说，是一个多么的“大件事”吗？因为，真的有多困难，多难得。

现在， 终于，找到了对的方法了。3个月，我又信心可以远离“胖”世界了。。。

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