对自己的生活负责

不知不觉,升上了大学2年级. 什么大学? 哈哈... 是社会大学...

好快. 毕业了. 找到工了. 就这样做了1年半...

嗯.... 就在这里说说这1年半....

刚开始,因为什么都不会,所以, 没有什么责任... 所以,还蛮轻松的.准时上班.也准时下班.

做着做着,会的东西也多了,也上手了.责任越来越多,工作越来越多.就慢慢的开始了加班.无形中也加了 许多的压力... 每天, 都在赶着赶那... 还没做完这个, 又有新的东西得做... 很多时候, 感觉随时会窒息... 真的觉得自己好像是个机器.... 当时, 会想, 1年, 1 年到就换工... 但到现在, 我还在同个公司... 哈哈....

可能, 是我开窍了.... 了解了"做工" 这回事... 哈哈...

我们只是打工而已... 真的不用拼命...

所以, 之后的我, 又回到了, 准时上班也准时下班的生活... 下班后, 就什么都不想, 什么都不去担心. 就过"自己" 的生活而不是过"做工" 的生后... 所以, 人也轻松了许多... 工作时也开心了许多... 压力也渐渐的少了...

可能另外一个开窍的原因是因为健康的问题...

有次身体检查到肝脏严重发炎... 其中一个原因是超重... 自从开始工作后, 真的很少运动了... 身体是父母给的, 是我们自己的. 每人可以帮你. 要对自己的身体负责... 上班时, 对老板负责... 6点后, 就要对自己负责... 所以, 决定了, 每个星期, 一定要跑步3-4天...

除非, 真的是非常重要, 或者, 是本身很重视的工程, 不然, 是不会违背这个原则.... 因为, 我认为, 工作真的只是赚钱的过程... 我们赚钱是为了什么? 还不是为了有更好的生活.. 假如身体不好, 有个屁用... 健康是最重要的... 其次, 是生活的意义... 再来时家人和爱人... 等等.... 最后, 才是工作....

但, 应该很多很多人, 都好像"卖身"给老板... 都在拼命为他们赚钱... 那, 得到了什么...

想想, 失去了什么? 还有, 会失去什么?

值得吗?

可能, 只是你们的责任感... 但, 也不用那么浓烈吧... 偶尔, 偶尔, 责任感一下... 对得起天地良心就好了...

假如你对你的工作很负责... 那, 你的生活呢? 你的兴趣呢? 你的家人呢? 你的朋友呢? 还有很多很多的人事物等着你去负责....

9am 后, 尽情地工作, 尽力发挥...

6pm 后，放下. 真的放下。过自己的生活。 自己的自己的老板， 对他负责。。。

When is your turn?

Having meeting with my colleague today to discuss something on project. In fact, we are not that close yet we have some chats in between. Get to know that he is leaving company very soon. hmn hmn... this is my reaction and wish him good luck. Afterall, we have not much interaction before this. Heard some complains from him about company, it is quite a normal to listen all these in my company (which i believe this happens in all company... haha)

"Why you haven't leave? When is your turn?"

Wo... this question pops out before in my mind before this. In fact, for my company, the pay is not that attractive, workload is seriously heavy, whatever also want to take and etc...

"I want to close a big project before I leave.." This is one of the reason i stay here... I want to make a milestone (at least) which rocks !!!!

Also, i'm quite happy and cherish the opportunity that company gives. It is quite a nice exposure to more managing role. Although not that much, but, still a nice learning curve for me. Learning some managing tactics and some planning for ownself and team. It's quite interesting... Maybe, exposure and experience brings more than money sense....

I'm still happy and contented with my work... Happy working everyone... Try to find the meaning of working...

Ridiculous yet Malaysian are so Flexible...

My parent is not away for two weeks for their first ever oversea travel. Quite happy when it shows that they can really start to enjoy their life from now onwards. As we are getting adults and self independent, they can put down all the stuff and worries. And we can support them financially, in fact, quite proud and happy of this. Finally, it is time to repay all their efforts on nurturing us.

Mum is not at home. So, who cooks? hmn hmn... this is a good question yet easy to solve.. haha.. so for this weekend, i got to solve my breakfast, lunch and dinner outside... haha...

My lunch for today is MarryBrown Nasi Lemak. Suddenly gt this urge for this. Maybe coz i recount back that i had this during cny time with my bros and sis. Taste not bad so i decide to have my lunch there. It is still tasting nice... but, the sambal is so little. so i request more from the waitress there.. After a while, a malay waitress brings the sambal to me. With smile, she said: "Tambah chilli kena tambah satu ringgit". SWEAT.... I'm eating your nasi lemak and i request for more chili. It needs to cost me one ringgit. not that stupid.. so i replied: "Satu ringgit? Tak mau le.." Still feeling quite stupid for paying one ringgit for sambal.. it is just ridiculous...

Guess.. what the waitress replied...

"Tak apa la.."

The sambal is now free of charge.. haha... dunnoe should i laugh or wat... the thing is supposed to be sold at one ringgit... but then, now given free by the waitress.... is this flexible? or what?

From this small incident, can see that how Malaysian treats things. I believed Malaysians are really "cincai" and does not care much. Pros and cons. When nothing happens, then, it is good, everyone is happy. "You are so kind", "Thank you, you are a good man" and etc compliments will be appeared.

BUT, i think this is also the reason why ppl have the impression that stuff which made in malaysia is sub-standard. Mainly, because we are really quite "cincai" and we have the mentally of "never mind", "it won't affect much", "tak apa la" and etc. Also, i think this is where all our corruption happens. I dunnoe if this is true. But this is wat i feel and wat i guess. Because, all of us are being so "flexible" and so good at "twist and turn". haha...

P.S. No insult... i'm malaysian too and also very flexible... but, i really feel tat we need to change and improve.... :)

Working life equals to ur life?

decide to write this blog post after noticing my gf so stressful... her face without any expression, tired and worried... aiks...

have u ever think about why we work? just because we need to work so that we can continue to survive? bt totally agree this and this is real fact... unless we are born rich...

since that we work because we want to live, but, y still need to care or worry so much things about ur work after working hour? everyday we are working from 9am till night... we work to earn the "life" after working hour, isn't it?

sometimes, while waiting for lift after knock off, hearding this from my colleagues, "finally can see sun when i go home" so sad, right? why work so hard and so late everyday... we are just getting a job to earn salary... our working time is 9 to 6...

we are employed but not "sold"...

i have so many things to do... tomorrow morning i have to submit this and that... i still have this and that to do... so many things and yet so little time... so no choice i have to work ot...

in fact, that is one of the choice and we always have other choice... so how to solve this problem? easy: reduce workload or increase man power... have u try to talk to ur boss about the solution? i guess, no. coz we will feel that no use.. boss will not care so much.. but, how u noe if u din't try.. at least we need to voice out our problem to them... so all this worries will be our boss's problem ... if they dont wan to hire more ppl to help then means that they agree that we can give up something... it can be quality or it can be the quantity... u cant have the best of all...

every weekday, we work for 9 hours. deducting sleeping time, one weekday, we only have 5 or 6 hours of "life" time... it is so short yet still deducting it for work... so unfair to ur life... so, don't care so much thing when u step out from office... it is ur life that time, nobody have the right to have u to work, not the supplier, not the client, not ur boss... unless u r sold to the company...

spend ur "life" time to relax. to enjoy ur meal.. to plan ur future... to chat with fren.... to company ur family..... even just to watch the clock ticks.... who noes u think of a great idea which earns u millions during that time.... there are so many thing we can do......

work ur best when u r working. live ur own life when u r off from work...please don't work blindly...

work is work and life is life...

Welcome to Live@chinwei

Quite surprise that i'm writing this...

Been reading many people's blog but do not have the thought to write my own till few minutes ago...

It is bit of random..

Thanks to Dajie, she is the one who promote blogging to me over msn just now... because this afternoon i was helping her to write something in chinese to post on her FB... till a moment ago, one of her fren replied her and she ask me on how to reply... her fren writes very well, very true and speaks the words which most of words have thought of it before. then, Dajie gimme her blog and i start reading and reading.... very attractive and down to earth of writing. she describes her feeling and thinking very thoroughly...

Casually mention to Dajie that i should write blogs also. and, she shares her feeling on how blogs can help her to remember all the happy past and so on.. true also Dajie, one day our memory will getting worse and worse... haha...

This is how the kick come from... very random and dunnoe why..

Thanks ya Dajie and ur fren (although i dunnoe her at all, haha)...

Calling my blog as Live@chinwei..... having this name for my first ever blog is that i wish all of you can have the live news/story/thought/feeling.... update from me....

Will try to update about my life more in here.... (hope can keep this as a practice..)

Enjoy reading and there will be more upcoming... :)